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Hind MoutaoikilR&D Manager
Fri Apr 25 2025
Cyberbullying has become a critical concern for parents, educators, and policymakers alike. With smartphones serving as portals to both learning and social engagement, they can unfortunately also become vehicles for harassment, exclusion, and emotional harm. As parents, staying ahead requires not only vigilance but wisdom — the kind of calm, forward-looking judgement that understands the tools, risks, and responsibilities of modern digital life.
In an increasingly digital world, where childhood and adolescence unfold on screens as much as in real life, the issue of cyberbullying has become a critical concern for parents, educators, and policymakers alike. With smartphones serving as portals to both learning and social engagement, they can unfortunately also become vehicles for harassment, exclusion, and emotional harm. As parents, staying ahead requires not only vigilance but wisdom — the kind of calm, forward-looking judgement that understands the tools, risks, and responsibilities of modern digital life.
Understanding the Scope of Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is defined as any form of bullying that takes place via digital devices — including phones, tablets, and computers — typically through messaging platforms, social media, forums, and gaming communities. According to a 2023 report by Ofcom, nearly 1 in 5 UK children aged 8-17 have experienced some form of harmful interaction online. The impact of such behaviour ranges from mild discomfort to severe psychological consequences, including anxiety, depression, and social withdrawal.
Cyberbullying is insidious. It can happen silently, after hours, and without immediate adult supervision. This makes proactive parenting not just helpful, but essential.
Cyberbullying Awareness: A Parent’s Digital Toolkit
When it comes to cyberbullying, the most effective response is early detection. Parents often wonder: Where should I start? The answer lies in understanding the settings, patterns, and behaviours on a child’s phone that may signal distress.
Here are the essential settings and indicators every parent should check:
1. Message and App Notifications
Start by reviewing the messaging apps your child uses — WhatsApp, Snapchat, Instagram DMs, Discord, and others. Ensure that notifications are enabled so you're aware when frequent or unusual messages come in. Look out for:
- Frequent messages from unknown or unrecognised numbers
- Sudden changes in frequency or tone of messages
- Apps your child is reluctant to open in your presence
2. Screen Time Reports
Most smartphones today — whether iPhone or Android — come with built-in screen time tracking. These reports can offer insight into:
- Excessive use of certain apps at unusual hours (often a red flag)
- A sudden drop in usage of previously frequented platforms (possibly indicating avoidance due to bullying)
- Spikes in screen time that could correspond with distress or confrontation online
3. Privacy and Block Settings
Make sure your child knows how to block users and report inappropriate content. Go through the privacy settings on social apps together to:
- Restrict who can contact them
- Limit who can view their posts and stories
- Ensure location sharing is turned off
4. Photo and Screenshot History
While privacy is important, occasional review of image folders may reveal saved screenshots of messages or images sent by others that are troubling or abusive. Children often screenshot bullying interactions but are unsure what to do with them.
5. Digital Wellbeing or Parental Control Apps
These apps help monitor digital behaviour in a non-invasive way. Some highly-rated tools include:
These tools can flag potentially harmful content, track app usage, and offer parents weekly summaries.
Building a Culture of Trust and Wisdom at Home
Technology alone cannot prevent cyberbullying. The deeper solution lies in fostering open dialogue and mutual trust. Children must feel safe to come forward without fear of punishment. Here are a few forward-looking strategies to build that trust:
- Have regular digital check-ins: Talk not only about school and friends, but also about what's happening online.
- Create a family digital agreement: Outline expectations around behaviour, usage time, and how to respond to negative online experiences.
- Model balanced digital behaviour: Show your child what wise, respectful online interaction looks like through your own digital habits.
This is where the wisdom of parenting in the 21st century truly shines — knowing when to guide, when to observe, and when to step in.
Recognising the Signs of Cyberbullying
Even with the best tools, much of cyberbullying’s impact manifests in real life. Be alert for behavioural changes such as:
- Withdrawal from social interactions
- Sudden mood swings or irritability
- Avoidance of school or extracurricular activities
- Sleep disturbances or loss of appetite These signs, combined with changes in digital behaviour, should prompt a calm and supportive conversation.
Final Thoughts: From Awareness to Empowerment
Cyberbullying can feel overwhelming, but awareness empowers action. The goal isn’t to control every aspect of your child’s digital life, but to equip them with the wisdom to navigate it safely, and to know you’re their ally if things go wrong.
By staying informed, fostering trust, and using available tools, families can transform devices from sources of anxiety into spaces of learning, connection, and safety. And in doing so, they ensure their children don’t just survive the digital world — they thrive in it.
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Hind Moutaoikil
R&D Manager
Hind is a Data Scientist and Computer Science graduate with a deep passion for research and development in data analytics and machine learning. With a solid foundation in business intelligence and statistics, Hind has experience working with a variety of programming languages such as Python, Java, and R. Through previous roles in internships and remote projects, Hind has gained expertise in transforming raw data into actionable insights. Focused on advancing the field of data science, Hind contributes to research and articles exploring the latest trends and breakthroughs in R&D.
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